Jump

“Jump into the middle of things, get your hands dirty, fall flat on your face, and then reach for the stars.”

My Baby

Thirty years ago today, it was 8am on a Saturday morning, my husband was working and I was enjoying a few extra minutes in bed. Suddenly, I felt something funny and thought the waterbed (yes, it was 1982!) had sprung a leak! Upon further investigation, it seemed, I had spring the leak! It had not happened like this during my first pregnancy with our daughter, but this time my water broke. Reluctantly, I called the doctor because there were no other signs of labor and, total control freak me, had been saying I wasn't going to the hospital this time until the baby was about to deliver! Once again, my favorite saying rears it's head, "Man plans. God laughs."
The doctor, rather emphatically, insisted that I needed to be in the hospital, for my safety and that of my baby. Realizing I was not going to win this argument with him, I agreed. Next, I called the homeowner where my husband was working (remember, 30 years ago ~ no pagers, no cell phones ~ just land lines!!!!) and I told her that I needed to speak with the guy working in her backyard, she refused. She said she was in her pajamas and wouldn't go outside in them. When I told her I was having a baby and needed him, she quickly changed her tune and ran outside. It was early, they had just unloaded all the tools and, his brother quickly began to reload them in the truck (remember this, Kevin?).
We arrived at St. Joseph's Hospital around 10:00am, got settled in and after the nurse made her examination, she said very little was happening. See, I told you I should have stayed home for awhile!! No, no, she replied, this is still where I needed to be. When the doc arrived, he suggested we start a pitocin drip to "help things along". My first child had been delivered without so much as a Bayer aspirin, so this was all new, uncharted waters for me. I had heard all the pitocin horror stories, hard to control contractions, more intense than normal, etc. Asking the doctor how long it would all take, he replied, "Let's get the train out of the station before we say when it will arrive at its destination!" Sounded like a great way to spend a Saturday afternoon!!
After many hours, having to endure a Lakers game on the television, at 4:40pm, our baby arrived. Remember, this was in the day when nobody knew what they were having and one of the rewards of hours of hard work (it ain't called labor for nothing!!), was finding out what "it" was. We had a boy! Later that night, my husband, who adored (adores) our daughter, came back to see me and said, "I knew it was another girl and I love Amber so much, I was fine with it, but I HAVE A SON!!
We had chosen the name of Justin if it was a boy. We were sure that was the right name. "J" names were really hip back then! The lady from the county recorders office came in the next day asking me to fill out the form with his name and info. I have no idea why, but I hesitated. I refused to fill it out until I talked to my husband one more time. When he got to the hospital that day, we walked to the nursery window and looked at our baby again. "I don't think he's a Justin", I said. "I think he's Tyler." And, so he was....and is. Thirty years later, he has many names, Ty, "T", Uncle T and more. He is still my baby.

Bench Love

Is this your image of Valentine's Day? Well, it definitely is not mine. My husband is not very romantic. He is not the hearts and flowers kind of guy who is going to write all over Facebook how much he loves his wife...blah...blah...blah! His idea of showing his love is to make sure my car has gas in it, clean up after dinner, fix things around the house. He is a guy who likes to be of service to others. Ask anyone in his life and they will all agree, he is the first to show up to help. He is the silent, steady rock that never wavers.

We had a bench out back for years and it got old and ugly and we replaced it with another one. Unfortunately, what seems to hold true these days, the newer one was made much more cheaply than the old one and wore out even faster. I noticed the bench on the side yard, the same one I had told him to take to the dump more than once, and said, "THAT'S what I want for Valentine's Day! Redo the old bench for me." It was really mangled, as you can see, but he set about taking it all apart, sanding, staining and painting it.
No job is as easy or simple as you expect and it took a lot of time and a lot of coats to try and save this thing. It didn't get done by Valentine's Day, but, finally, today, he got it all back together and put it in its spot out back.It looks great out there. It is a gentle reminder of our love...older, not new, seasoned, not perfect, but somehow, it still fits!

Just One Sentence

Maddy had her first swim meet today. She does so many things and all of them quite well. This may sound like a proud grammie talking and, perhaps it is. It is also very true. Maddy is one of those kids that can be dropped into any setting, any social situation, not knowing a soul, and will come away with three new friends. She is game for anything and willing to try everything. After her first race, where we adults were tense, nervous and fretful, she got out of the pool and proclaimed, "That was so fun!!" If one sentence can sum up a person, that is Maddy's sentence, for sure. She is happy to approach life and all it has to offer as a fun adventure. This will surely serve her well throughout her life.

Green Ideas

I know the calendar still says February, but I have put away my Valentine decorations and have begun thinking about St. Patrick's Day. Of all my decorations, this holiday is definitely the most paltry. I vowed to add some things to the collection this year. Anything green around my house may be a possible inclusion in my ideas.
I saw a really fun idea on Pintrest and decided to make something similar. First, I sat down and had to drink a bottle of wine because I needed the bottle. We must sacrifice for art! Soaking the bottle in hot water, the label easily came off.

I bought letters on clearance at Michaels for five cents each! What a deal...or should I say, "How lucky!" A little glue, a little paint, some wire & plastic shamrocks and I was on my way.


Here's the project in progress.

And here's the finished product. I think it is really festive and looks great on the dining room table. They say when decorating, you should always group things in threes, so I am off to empty a couple of more bottles...for the sake of art!

Blogger Slacker

I really suck at blogging lately, not sure why. I think since I started the 365 Photo Challenge this year, I have spent more time taking pics than blogging words. I will get back to the blog as I really enjoy it.
I love pictures taken in mirrors and this one was grabbed in a quick second when I picked Jack up from school today. His devilish grin and Abbey looking on just made me smile. Hope it makes you smile too!

Lucky #13

Yesterday, I ran the Surf City Half Marathon in Huntington Beach with 17,000 people. The race itself was really great. We ran mostly along PCH with the water on one side. The weather was warmer than I expected, never a good thing for this runner. After the race, I experienced the worst cramping in both my calves that I have ever had. I am talking, crying and yelling on the car ride home. Poor Mark was trying to give suggestions on what to do, which only upset me further. I liken the pain to contractions during childbirth (yes, that bad) and his suggestions were as annoying as anything he might have said during childbirth as well! It lasted for quite a while and the result is that today, both calves are still rock hard. If I sit too long, it is tough to get going.
Reading this, you probably ask the question, "Then why do it?" I willingly signed up for the race. It was my 8th half marathon in less than two years. I knew what I was getting into for sure. Although I have never had quite that bad of a post race experience, there is always some stiffness and soreness after running 13.1 miles. However, there is also the euphoric feeling of accomplishment and pleasure at the end of the race that is an even bigger feeling than the pain. I guess that is where the analogy of childbirth may come in again. For all the pain and tears, people keep having babies. Besides the pain, often forgotten shortly after the experience itself, is the pure joy and bliss that comes from holding that new, perfect creature in your arms. Worth the pain, we say, worth it for sure!!